Would you say that sexuality is fixed or fluctuating? Do you think it can change naturally without external force?

tobeagenius:

It’s a tricky question to answer, but I think sexuality is fixed from when we are very young (or even before we’re born through genetics). For example, a girl could go through their life experiencing attraction to other girls, but she may never register it as ‘attraction’ because she never realised it was possible/an option. In addition, conversion centres which (vile) parents send their children to in order to ‘pray the gay away’ have shown to be completely unsuccessful. This would all suggest that sexuality is fixed from birth. 

I understand why people think sexuality is fluctuating, however I think people just take time to come to terms with their identity if they are queer -especially in a world where heterosexuality is grossly overrepresented.